Collected Meditations
Showing 69 quotesAs unique as we all are, an awful lot of us want the same things. We want to shake up our current less-than-fulfilling lives. We want to be happier, more loving, forgiving and connected with the people around us.— Brene Brown
I've learned that men and women who are living wholehearted lives really allow themselves to soften into joy and happiness. They allow themselves to experience it.— Brene Brown
The intention and outcome of vulnerability is trust, intimacy and connection. The outcome of oversharing is distrust, disconnection - and usually a little judgment.— Brene Brown
Many people think of perfectionism as striving to be your best, but it is not about self-improvement; it's about earning approval and acceptance.— Brene Brown
One of the things I did when I discovered this huge importance of being vulnerable is very happily moved away from the shame research, because that's such a downer, and people hate that topic. It's not that vulnerability is the upside, but it's better than shame, I guess.— Brene Brown
The moment someone asks you to do something you don't have the time or inclination to do is fraught with vulnerability.— Brene Brown
Through my research, I found that vulnerability is the glue that holds relationships together. It's the magic sauce.— Brene Brown
We use work to numb out. We can't turn off our machines because we're afraid we're going to miss something.— Brene Brown
I'm not a parenting expert. In fact, I'm not sure that I even believe in the idea of 'parenting experts.' I'm an engaged, imperfect parent and a passionate researcher. I'm an experienced mapmaker and a stumbling traveler. Like many of you, parenting is by far my boldest and most daring adventure.— Brene Brown
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Parenting
I've learned a lot since I was a new mother. My approach to struggle and shame now is to talk to yourself like you'd talk to someone you love and reach out to tell your story.— Brene Brown
I can encourage my daughter to love her body, but what really matters are the observations she makes about my relationship with my own body.— Brene Brown
We're hardwired for connection. There's no arguing with the bioscience. But we can want it so badly we're trying to hot-wire it.— Brene Brown
My husband's a pediatrician, so he and I talk about parenting all the time. You can't raise children who have more shame resilience than you do.— Brene Brown
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Parenting
Live-tweeting your bikini wax is not vulnerability. Nor is posting a blow-by-blow of your divorce . That's an attempt to hot-wire connection. But you can't cheat real connection. It's built up slowly. It's about trust and time.— Brene Brown
I carry a small sheet of paper in my wallet that has written on it the names of people whose opinions of me matter. To be on that list, you have to love me for my strengths and struggles.— Brene Brown
Normally, when someone we love is turning away from a struggle, we self-protect by also turning away. That's definitely my first response. I think change is more likely to happen if both partners have common language and a shared lens to see problems.— Brene Brown
To me, constructive criticism is when people take ownership of their ideas. That's why I don't listen to anything that's anonymous. But it's hard; when there's something hurtful out there, I still want to read it over and over and memorize it and explain my point of view to the person.— Brene Brown