"I feel like the most fascinating parts of a trans life take place after the decision to transition. ..." — Hari Nef

I want to start the trans mafia one day.

I think people get stuck in a cycle with social media sometimes and don't know how to make adjustments that are personal.

There have been moments where I've had to question the way I've used social media and change it. Not because anything was wrong or right but because my needs had changed, and my perspective had changed.

I think it's an oversimplification of somebody's worth to 'cancel' them. We're so quick to cancel but also so quick to lift somebody up as 'the queen,' 'the mom,' 'the dad,' 'the god.'