"The power of pop culture stories should not be underestimated, and there is an enormous potential fo..." — Anita Sarkeesian

Games have a huge impact on our society because the media plays a role in helping to shape our attitudes. So it's not just fantasy.

The notion that gaming was not for women rippled out into society, until we heard it not just from the games industry, but from our families, teachers and friends. As a consequence, I, like many women, had a complicated, love-hate relationship with gaming culture.

My own contentious relationship with gaming continued through high school and college: I still enjoyed playing games from time to time, but I always found myself pushed away by the sexism that permeated gaming culture. There were constant reminders that I didn't really belong.