"You can't just say in one sentence what is blackness or what is black culture or what makes you who ..." — Rachel Dolezal

I've never been fully transparent or an open book, even to those you'd call close friends.

I think there's definitely a stereotype of white privilege, and that stereotype gets expanded to mean rich, not oppressed, not suffering, et cetera. And yes, it's a misperception.

Have I had experiences by other people identifying me as black and behaving towards me as black? Yes. Just for as long as maybe somebody who was born categorised as black? No.

My husband didn't want me to wear any black hairstyles. Nicole Kidman was his standard of beauty.