Author Profile
Mark Goulston
1948 • American • Psychologist
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Showing 62 quotesShow people a positive path that enables them to make progress on their own terms. Give them options and alternatives that empower them.— Mark Goulston
Forget the empty platitudes; your star employee is not a 'godsend.' They are a person deserving of your not infrequent acknowledgment and worthy of appreciation and respect.— Mark Goulston
In my line of work, I frequently communicate with CEOs and their executive assistants, and nowhere is the need for gratitude more clear.— Mark Goulston
In my life, I think I have had more than two hundred significant breakthroughs that exponentially accelerated my life forward. However, each and every one of them was preceded by a breakdown that was not pretty, was often scary, and often felt like something I would not get past.— Mark Goulston
Buying involves decision-making. It's a performance activity, like sports or acting.— Mark Goulston
Terrorism thrives when the gap between the 'haves' and 'have nots' becomes so wide and when the 'have nots' reach the point of such desperation, pain, and agony that they have nothing to lose.— Mark Goulston
One of the most important keys to getting through to anyone and then influencing them is to realize that inside everyone's mind, they listen to someone or something.— Mark Goulston
Salespeople are in the decision business. Their livelihood depends on the decisions of others.— Mark Goulston
It's no fun being a salesperson when it feels like you're talking to a wall. That's what it feels like when you haven't learned your customer's points of interest.— Mark Goulston
You can't create more jobs for an economy where the vast majority of people are hesitant and even afraid to spend and buy.— Mark Goulston
Lousy, ineffective actions lead to lousy outcomes. Terrific, effective actions lead to terrific outcomes.— Mark Goulston
When you're actually talking over someone, it's as if you're just pontificating and they're not even there. And their body language - they're trying to get away from you. And if you're pontificating at an audience, and there's a break, the non-martyrs in the audience are not going to come back. I mean, they just want to get away from you.— Mark Goulston
Speak the truth. People will forgive an honest mistake; they won't forgive you if you lie.— Mark Goulston
I am blessed to count among my friends and colleagues people who are very thoughtful and who deeply care about our country.— Mark Goulston
There is something calming and emotionally restoring when you focus on gratitude for a known deed that helped you, instead of fear of the unknown.— Mark Goulston
Yes, CEOs are under pressure from all sides, and executives have all sorts of people pushing and pulling at them. But too often, they begin to view and treat their teams, and especially their assistants, as appliances. And a good assistant knows that the last thing their boss wants to hear from them is a personal complaint about anything.— Mark Goulston
Men such as President Bill Clinton don't have trouble showing a warmth which works for him, but women in power seem hesitant to use their feminine charm in a man's world out of concern for appearing lightweight, manipulative, or needing to use it to make up for something that is lacking.— Mark Goulston
In the first 20 seconds of talking, your light is green: your listener is liking you as long as your statement is relevant to the conversation and, hopefully, in service of the other person. But unless you are an extremely gifted raconteur, people who talk for more than roughly half a minute at a time are boring and often perceived as too chatty.— Mark Goulston